爲了婚姻學會愛中英文互譯

如果你爭鬥爲了你自己，你只贏了愛人，而你鬥爭爲了你的婚姻，你倆才都是贏家。

Look Out for No.2

There is a powerful healing energy that emanates from ing love can learn to sense it,send it and make it grow. We are energized by love if we put our energy into loving.

Bad energy springs from conflicts that arise when two egos collide. When I watch husbands and wives argue with each other, I want to shout:"Grow up,stop fighting,start loving!"It is bettter to learn how to love than how to fight. Dont't try to win in your marriage, win for your marriage.

Marriage is designed primarily for giving rather than taking, It is meant to be a permanent union of two unselfish people. As one husband told me,"The old saying was "Look out for Number one",But we 've learned to "Look out for Number two."If you fight for yourself,only you can win. When you fight for your marriage, you both win.

愛能釋放出一種強大到起治療康復作用的能量。持續長久的愛能讓人學會去感知，釋放並加強增長這種能量。如果我們付出能量給愛，我們就會體驗到這種能量使我們充滿激情而活力四射。

相反的惡能也會從兩個自私自我的`人的爭吵和矛盾衝突中迸發出來。每當我看到夫妻彼此爭吵不休時僅不住想大吼：“成熟點吧，別再鬧了，開始愛吧！”學會愛吧而不是學會怎樣去爭論和爭吵。千萬別努力去爭取成爲你婚姻中贏的一方。而要努力成爲爲你婚姻而努力的贏家。

婚姻原本是給予而不是索取，它意味着兩個沒有私心的人永久的聯合。有個做丈夫的曾對我說：“俗話說人都要先爲自己着想，”但是我們學會了“爲他人着想照顧愛人的利益”。如果你爭鬥爲了你自己，你只贏了愛人，而你鬥爭爲了你的婚姻，你倆才都是贏家。